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Cathy Nirta

Cathy Nirta

I am a person with a physical disability who has seen 4 decades of change in disability services and feel compelled to tell others the many stories I have gathered through the years.

My stories of going to a special school, then moving into the Home for Incurables at fourteen, the amazing people, many who have passed away, I have known along my journey.

About the changes in attitude towards us, and the emergence as a culture of our own through a core group of us who grew up together and we are now a family of activists.

I have stories about being there when winds of change were happening when I heard Wolfensberger talking about Normalization challenging large congregate care facilities. And because I spoke up and said I hated living in a place where 600 others were, and wanted to live in a house like everybody else, my wish was granted.

All stories which need to be told.

I have taken the liberty of including a couple of excerpts of what I have managed to remember from my story, which I have been writing.

SOMERTON SCHOOL
Somerton Crippled Children’s Home was a boarding school as well as a nursing home. Originally this beautiful blue stone seaside mansion was owned by an old Adelaide family called the Bickfords. The building was converted to a school and nursing home in 1939 for children who contracted Polio and was eventually used for children with other physical disabilities.

My first day at Somerton and the first person I met was Matron Hacket in her office next to the beautiful old staircase. Matron Hacket was a military nurse during World War 1 who made nursing her lifelong career. She kept the running of the place ship shape. She was a tiny woman with a kindly face and a lovely set of perfect white false teeth. I was one of her favorite children. She however had a tough time handling the teenage boys who, like me, had Muscular Dystrophy but Duchene, which is a severe type.

There were quite a few of these boys going to school at Somerton and generally their deterioration was so quick that they would die from respiratory failure between fifteen and twenty two years old. It was something no one ever dealt with or talked about and I wonder to this day how much those boys must have suffered inside because they knew what awaited them.
They showed behavior such as anger, swearing, and when electric wheelchairs became more common, bashing their chairs against the walls in frustration which was, I justified, but Matron Hackett didn’t understand these things, and I thought took their abuse to heart.

I was scared of one particular boy who had a particularly sharp tongue, but became good friends with him when I lived on the same ward at The Home for Incurables, a few years later. Watching each of the boys disappear one by one was something one of my tender age would never normally have had to endure, and I sometimes think of them and how lucky I was to have known them.

Somerton was a sight to behold during lunch hour. Children with missing limbs, often caused by Thalidomide, a drug prescribed to mothers during pregnancy for morning sickness that caused deformities in unborn babies. One child lost his legs because his mother accidentally put him in a hot bath.

The boys played cricket in what appeared to be slow motion on uneven concrete, others played on swings. We all managed to adapt to whatever our disabilities happened to be. The children without arms would use their mouths or feet to write or draw pictures, or those of us who could walk waddled along wearing calipers clumsily racing each other from the staircase to the reception desk..

In the classrooms our teachers would ask where various children were, and one of us would reply, “… at the limb factory”, or “at physio”.

In hindsight we children didn’t view our situations as being anything out of the ordinary, and would laugh at the funny old women who would click their tongues in pity as we passed them when going on our Sunday sojourns to the local shop to buy ice creams and lollies.

1966 is a year which sticks in my memory. It was the year my brothers Stephen and Tony went to Italy with my Dad to seek treatment for our muscular dystrophy and the year my nephew was born. My sister and her husband and father in law were sharing our house and I was so excited about having a baby in the house that I couldn’t wait to get home from school.

Every year November 5th everyone would buy crackers and fireworks. This was an old English custom celebrating the execution of Guy Fawkes who In the 1600s tried to blow up British parliament house. That year the teachers and us children, using old stockings, made a life-sized dummy representing Guy Fawkes, which was won by whichever child’s name would be pulled out of a hat. I was thrilled that I won him and so, Mr. Guy Fawkes’ sat beside me during my journey home in the taxi. Jack, the taxi driver, decided to play a practical joke by propping the dummy against the door and when my sister Antonia answered the door she sure enough got a big shock!
She later that night lit the dummy in our back yard and made a bonfire out of Mr. Guy Fawkes. Guy Fawkes Night was later banned due to the accidents, plus to avoid bush fires.

I hope this snippet about my childhood will encourage others to tell their stories so future people with disabilities will know the struggles and triumphs we have had in the past.

Cathy Nirta.

It was with great sadness we heard of Cathy’s passing on 3rd October 2008. Cathy was an important disability activist in South Australia, and made a significant impact on all who knew her. Cathy was a long-term volunteer at DIRC and she will be missed greatly by DIRC and by the wider community

9 Responses to “Cathy Nirta”

  1. Anna Murphy (Caprioli) Says:

    Darling Kathy,
    How wonderful it was to see your face again after all these years!
    I am putting together a website in memory of all those children we knew who weren’t as lucky as we were.
    Please let me know if you will help me out?
    I got married; had 1st daughter - 20 months later, had twin daughters - 8 years later, my son arrived. I am now 55, have been married 35 years and still miss Somerton quite badly and all those memories still.
    Please email me, please.
    Tons of love, Anna

  2. Anna Murphy (Caprioli) Says:

    Unlike Kathy, I loved Somerton. But I was sent there at an early age (3 years old) and didn’t go back to my family until I was about 8. So Somerton was truly my childhood home.

  3. Jeanette Cridland (smith) Says:

    I went to work at Somerton when I was 17 as a nurse’s aid. I was there for about 10yrs. I remember you and Stephen very well, you called me “Smithy” We had many talks. It was a very rewarding experience for me and to this day I remember so many of the kids who stayed at the Home. Matron Hacket was the maton when I was there, later Sister Harbison took over, Hope you are well, Jeanette

  4. lauren nirta Says:

    Cath, This is a great story! when do we get the next instalment?
    Also Anna, I interpreted Cathy’s “I hated living in a place where 600 others were” as hating the “Home for Incurables” which might be more recognizable as the Julia Farr Centre. It seems that she had a good time, all be it difficult in some aspects, at Somerton.
    Thank you Cathy

  5. Catherine Carter Says:

    Great to hear a bit of your story. What a woman! Inspiring confidence enthusiasm good cheer and love. We love you, trusting you are well. Hope to catch up soon. love CC

  6. stephen nirta Says:

    Hi Cathy, Just read your Somerton Bio. Best years of my youth.
    I have to write about things I have done myself as a result of your input but at a later date (I am busy working at the present)
    I just wanted to say that reading about comments from Smithy and the fond memories I have of her (how is the protestant thing going?).
    Would dearly love to catch up with Smithy sometime as there are 35 years to catch up on since our last encounter.
    Cathy, I thank you for the opportunity to read your words. Must admit that I had completely forgotten about the Guy incident but on reflection it is coming back to me although somewhat hazy.
    Love from your Brother, Steve

  7. Cathy Says:

    So cool to read all the comments resulting from my excerpt from my story.
    All my love,
    Cathy N

  8. Malcolm Says:

    After reading all these wonderful comments and memories, I am keen to know if any of you have any information or photographs about the nurses home which was behind the Somerton Crippled Children’s home and still stands today. The reason I am interested is that I live there today!
    Cheers
    Malcolm

  9. Anna Says:

    Hello Steve,
    I don’t know if you remember me? But I remember you. My website-planning has stalled for the moment, but I would love some input from you.
    If nurse ‘Smithy’ has any images or stories about Somerton, I would LOVE to include them in my site. I am particularly interested in obtaining a picture of Somerton’s front entrance. I have a view of it from the beachside of the esplanade.
    And Malcolm, I would love to tell you some stories about the nurses who lived there, if you would like to contact me. We kids would spy on the nurses’ comings & goings from the nurses home. We would watch from the recreation room’s windows …. especially those nurses whose boyfriends would sit on that front step - under Matron’s apartment … where SHE couldn’t see them.
    Quite a bit of canoodling went on there at times.
    I will be in Adelaide 6 monthly from late October - 2009 - if anyone would like to catch up ……… let me know.

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